Become a Surrogate
Surrogate FAQs
Questions surrogates ask us most
What’s the difference between traditional and gestational surrogacy?
In traditional surrogacy the surrogate is also the egg donor. In gestational surrogacy, the type Open Arms Surrogacy & Egg Donation coordinates, the egg comes from the intended mother or a donor, so the surrogate has no genetic connection to the baby.
How long does the surrogacy process take?
Timing varies. Application, screening, matching, clinic clearance, legal work, transfer preparation, embryo transfer, and pregnancy each have their own timelines. We discuss realistic milestones based on your situation rather than promise a fixed date.
How much can surrogates make?
First-time surrogates can make up to $60,000. Experienced surrogates make more; let’s discuss your base compensation.
Can I choose the intended parents?
Yes. You can review a profile, meet potential intended parents, ask questions, and decide whether you want to move forward with a proposed match.
Will I have my own legal representation?
Yes. Surrogates and intended parents work with separate reproductive attorneys so each party can receive independent legal advice about the agreement and their responsibilities.
Who pays approved surrogacy-related expenses?
The intended parents cover approved reimbursed expenses, including approved travel and other journey-related costs, as set out in the individualized compensation package and legal agreement. You are never expected to pay these costs yourself; the exact categories vary by journey.
Do I need my own health insurance?
No, you do not need your own health insurance. A plan will be purchased for you if deemed necessary. Open Arms Surrogacy & Egg Donation helps coordinate the review, while qualified insurance professionals and counsel advise on the appropriate coverage for your journey.
Can I be a surrogate if I work or have children?
Many surrogates work and are raising children. We discuss your schedule, childcare, support system, transportation, travel expectations, and the practical demands of the journey before you commit.
Will I need to travel?
Possibly. Travel needs depend on your location, the fertility clinic, screening requirements, monitoring arrangements, and embryo transfer plans. Any expected travel should be discussed before matching.
Why are birth control and fertility medications essential?
Birth control synchronizes menstrual cycles between the surrogate and the egg source; fertility hormones then prepare the uterine lining for optimal embryo implantation and receptivity.
Can I use marijuana during surrogacy?
No. Open Arms Surrogacy & Egg Donation prohibits use during a surrogacy journey due to legal complications, potential fetal risks including low birth weight and developmental issues, and intended parent preferences.
What happens if an embryo transfer is unsuccessful?
Your clinic will explain the medical plan and options. Whether another transfer is considered depends on the medical circumstances, the parties’ agreement, and the treatment plan. Your coordinator helps keep communication and next steps organized.
How do I prepare emotionally for post-birth separation?
Set expectations early through open communication with the intended parents, build your own support network, focus on the positive impact you’re making, and use the professional counseling resources available through Open Arms Surrogacy & Egg Donation.
How do I manage communication changes after birth?
Discuss expectations with the intended parents before the birth, respect everyone’s bonding boundaries, stay flexible, and know that contact frequency often evolves naturally over time.
What support does Open Arms provide after delivery?
Open Arms Surrogacy & Egg Donation remains available during the postpartum period for coordination, communication, and practical journey questions, while your medical providers handle your postpartum care.
Surrogate Stories
What Surrogates Say
Surrogate
Each coordinator exceeded my expectations.
I am a surrogate and didn’t know what to expect from this experience. Open Arms has guided me through each step with compassion, knowledge and experience.
Surrogate
Life’s greatest gift.
Being able to complete someone’s family is life’s greatest gift. I would highly recommend Open Arms.
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I am blessed that they chose me.
Being a surrogate was very rewarding for me. I had the two most wonderful parents I could have hoped for. I will forever remember and love the families I’ve met on their journey to becoming parents.